as much humanness as possible, as much weirdness. no more of this putting on a “cool front” bullshit. laugh at yourself. loudly if you must. at how stupid and trivial your worries are. call yourself out on the unnecessary seriousnesses. admit to your shit, so that you can gain and maybe even laugh about it later.
try your best to be able to laugh about the things that are most serious and daunting in your life. this is the only good form of power that i can think of.
spend time with whoever, despite everything, or in spite of everything. there are some people that should be kept around, and you’ll know who they are, usually early on.
only try hard for what matters. don’t waste energy.
if anything you want to do stems from deliberating about others’ reactions, don’t do it. don’t think “too far” ahead, it will ruin purpose and prohibit the “truest” most beneficial choices/actions
reach backward and grab what was good, some of it matters for now and some of it doesn’t, look forward and dream for what will be, but be present during all of this. the present is fleeting so try and keep up with it, be aware of it the best you can and try to be within it as much as possible. don’t slip into the past and future so much, it’s too easy
no time for all the bullshit we emit in our everyday lives
be real by being the least hypocritical you can be
if you have time, money and youth, do as much as you can. if you only have one of those, or none, still do as much as you can.
no settling for less. stop waiting and putting off what you want.
we’re all the same, be a kind human.